I approved your application today on the website and you should have access to our regular forums now. But, I went into game and tried to invite to the fleet there and the game said there was not such player. If you could put your "character name@handle" here, then I could invite you to the fleet.
If you prefer, PM me in game. My "@handle" in game is @Elric71. The two characters I am playing the most right now are Nish'Tar@Elric71 (fed side) and Myr'Sendri@Elric71 (KDF side). So, send me a friend invite in game. That way, I will get the invite no matter when I log in (I am in the US, east coast) and I can then invite you from my friend menu.
Welcome to the Fleet, and hope to hear from you soon :)